I am pretty new here for about 1 month, I am 40 yrs old almost 41. I was told I might be BPD about a month ago and just my last counseling appointment found out that I am truly BP. I have been going through a very ruff young adulthood and I wondered why I didn't have friends or BFs for more then a few months at a time or for a few years at a time. NOW I know and I am trying to change my ways but it will take years of learning. I am glad I am here now in this moment but who know what will happen down the line. All I know is I am grateful that this website is here so thank you.