I agree with others. It sounds like a bad relationship. This kind of abuse will undermine your needs and self esteem. Short of leaving him, you have stand up for yourself and not put with his abuse. Sometime arguments happen and tempers get flared when there is just cause, but him berating you about housework is not a health relationship. If he yells at you, stand up and tell him you won't be spoken to like that. If he continues leave. I think moving on to someone else is the easier course than trying to fix him. You deserve to be treated with respect and care from your partner.