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Originally Posted by depressedgirl
I know. it's just whenever i cry he gets really mad no matter the reason. and im the type of person that cries when i get upset, so it's hard. I know it probably seems like I'm making excuses but I'm really not I just don't know how I can talk to him baout it without it causing a fight
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I know this sounds harsh, but if he is the man meant to be in your life for the duration, he is going to have to understand and except you flaws and weakness. He needs to do that without getting mad or it causing a fight. No one comes perfect.
If you get a chance to start a conversation with him about your struggles, you can start off by saying something like, "I love/like so many things about you, and I really appreciate you in my life. I need you not to get upset and allow me to openly share my struggle with you. I need the support I can get from you. And so on..."
I hope you have a chance to be open with him and not be in a relationship where you have to hide things from him so as not to start a fight or make him mad.
Love & Blessings to you!
