i asked my husband of 15 years (together 20) for a divorce. at first he was agreeable, but now i am not so sure. he agreed to let us (our son and I) live here until i could get a better job and save some money. he is acting like nothing is wrong and everything is fine. he still tells me he loves me. i feel like i have to say it back but most of the time i don't. i am not in love with him any more and i don't want to remain married. i am trying to act like we are separated but he is not. any advice? as soon as i get the money together, i am going to file for a separation.