People are bound to realise what the problem is, and they are responsible for their own reactions. it doesnt matter if they label you. as long you focus on getting through it, people will forget soon enough, it will become yesterdays news.

your coach sounds a great guy, you need people like him in your life, and they are the ones you should hold onto, whereas the "labellers" are not important, and they normally put others down to make their own insecurites remain hidden, these are the people you should detatch yourself from.

the cuts will heal, and people will forget. so dont worry, you just have to concentrate on helping yourself and let the world go on as it is. there is no need worrying, i can see why you are and i completely understand, but trust me, people do forget.

take it easy on yourself and i hope things brighten up soon enough.

simon