Sounds a lil bit like OCD, but I think there's definitely some different stuff going on there, too. Get yourself some help, ASAP. I can't help but to wonder if in your personal life, you feel you have no control over it, and thus this need to have some order and control in your life, is spilling over into unnecessary and unimportant stuff. I have a similar issue, sometimes, I think. I have very, very little control over my life, and sometimes I get pretty irate over simple ****, because they're not how I want them.. but then again.. I do have severe OCD, so IDK if it's just that. xD Good luck, anyways.