Hi Frances, good to hear from you again,
Well, what you said is about the way I think it should go. Once, talk it over, twice, dont do it agin, three times, good-bye. Some would probably even say goodbye at twice. Even once is inexcusable for any reason. Beyond that, youre almost asking for it. Good for you! I'm glad you had the strength to leave. Maybe if all did, these men wouldnt think they could get away with it. MIght raise the standard for us all, wouldnt that be something? Good luck to you sweet-heart.

"This too shall pass...."