hi i don't know if this is a stupid question or if i am over-analyzing the therapist-client relationship i am developing but here is the situation:
my therapist makes me feel a little bit uncomfortable bc she is ALWAYS so affectionate; big hugs, a little slide down my shoulders and back, and she always sits very close to me
also last week when the session ended, she said "so sweetie, do you remember what day our session is on next week and what time it is?"
she flips thru her calendar...and i say "no i dont remember..."
then she says "oh i found it, oh its on vAlentines day sweetie ! maybe you could be my valentine!" there was like a 2 second pause between us and then she laughed, tring to brush it off, then she hugged me again when i left. maybe i am misreading the social cues and /or body language she is giving me. ANY and ALL feedback would be helpful ..and i'm not even sure if i posted this in the right place! and anyway, sorry if its a stupid question!
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