i'm sorry for your predicament, i hope you feel better soon, i'll pray, like i do everyday especially for people on here.i don't think you are a bad person for not empathising with the other person, we all have our own problems, and it's not your duty or anything like that to feel sorry for anybody. i'm sure deep down you care you've got too much on your plate now to see clearly, so i hope your depression goes away too.