hi Chrystal09, welcome to PC. glad to have you on-board.

Have you considered going to therapy together, as a couple. he will be safe in the knowledge you are there and will also begin opening up and dealing with his depression.

something does need to be done, to help him and help you. it might be hard to make him realise he has serious problems that do need help, so just tell him to give group therapy a help, where its just you and him and the therapist. you could even tell him that you need to go too so he might think hes going along for your sake, but when you are there try to get him to open up, im sure it would work

i wish you all the best and i hope things improve soon.

take care

simon