S4 I do understand. Courts set the rate and enforcement enforces the amount. My H is self employed and when he does weekly payroll he just automatically deducts whatever child enforcement says. It is much easier that way most of his employees agree.

I agree if your ex wife has no means of paying child support, and the children's needs are being met by you then that is the main thing. That their needs are met some way somehow. In the long run messing w/ child support and there mom is most likely a losing battle. She is your ex wife but there mother and as seldom as they do see her, still what hurts her will hurt them. So if you guys agree that this arrangement is best then that is a good thing.