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Originally Posted by Zenster
Hi Betrayed
This is my XH to a t. He lied about all his emotional affairs - he has always been a player but sticks mostly to flirting, kissing, validation seeking. He triangulates like crazy - drove me batty. He also sees him self as friendly, a nice guy, a great catch.
They lie but don't change. Look
up narcissism and borderline personality disorder. He seems to show classic cluster b behaviour.
I'm sorry your H is like this and wish you the best.
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Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience with me; your tip on cluster b enlightened me a bit and I found that my H falls in this category, specifically histrionic personality disorder:
Features intense expressions of emotion and excessive attention-seeking; often seek out attention and are uncomfortable when others are receiving attention. They may often engage in seductive or sexually promiscuous behavior, or use their physical appearance to draw attention to themselves. They also may demonstrate rapidly shifting emotions and express emotion in a very dramatic fashion.