It is expecially important to get help ASAP, because of his suicidal thoughts. If he had a parent that committed suicide (like I did--my mother) that also increases the chances that he will attempt it. My son was (when he was a teenager) suicidal & I took him t the nearest ER.

I also had delusions about my husband, that it was all his fault, he was "out to get me", that he didn't care about me & wanted me to die, etc. With medication & therapy those thoughts decreased tremendously. I sometimes still have thoughts that he is thinking bad things about me, but I'm able to see what is rational & what is not.

I hope he you can get him some help.--Suzy