We all have different roads to travel. I got married and had my children very young. My best friend for many years decided to share with me the fact she thought I was an idiot for getting pregnant and having my second child. I was "finally doing something with my life" and now it would be put on hold. She was referring to the fact I was in college. We did not speak for many years after that. Then a few years ago she friend requested me on FB. She wrote me a long heartfelt message (although she did not remember what it was that seperated us to begin with). She was now married with children of her own and understood where I was at all those years ago. It was like we'd never stopped talking. Unfortunately this past November made me re-evaluate my friends list and she didn't make the cut.
Right now is the time for you to spread your wings a little bit and find some new friends. You and your old friend may be back on the same page another day, but today is not that day.
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I've been married for 24 years and have four wonderful children.
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