Man, I totally get it! Being in a narcisstic relationship is the easiest to fall into and the hardest to get out of and let go. It steals your self worth big time. I just went to a support group tonight for co-dependents that totally opened my eyes to MY issues and not hers, which we cannot control. We just have to stay focused on ourselves and know we deserve better. Either way I still care and lover her, but its not my issue anymore. She has to fix herself and there is nothing I can do to make her see that.
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Originally Posted by SSaysRelapse
I am in the same situation you are in. And like you, I cannot help but still care for and love her. But alas, I finally did stand up for myself, did apologize for the last argument in how I reacted, but not for what happened, which was entirely her fault. Being a narcissist, she'll probably never apologize and it's more than likely the end of the road. It's just unfortunate that I would take her back in a heart beat if she'd have me...
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