I'm single for the first time in 5 years this Valentines Day. Most of those last 5 V-Days were disappointing. I'm a little lonely this year but I decided that Valentines Day should be about all types of love, not just romantic love, so I took the opportunity to send all my friends Valentines cards that let them know how happy I am that they are in my life. Y'know, just like elementary school! It felt great. I know we have all be conditioned to put this weird significance on Valentines Day and I fully understand the pain that it can cause. I remember reading this poem called **** valentines day or something once. It just goes to show a lot of people feel that way. But everything, Valentine's Day included, is what you make of.it.