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Old Feb 12, 2013, 06:53 AM
GreyThinker GreyThinker is offline
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Originally Posted by everydaysadness View Post
Well i don't have a father on father's day anymore. He died last year 4 days before fathers day, his death was really sudden and unexpected, i didn't even get to say goodbye the most important man who will ever be in my life . Sorry to sound cruel but i DO think you are being a bit self-centred, no offense but get over yourself because being alone on valentines day isn't even close to having real emotion problems. Sorry to sound mean but it's true, but one day you will lose a parent or someone really close to you & you will realize how petty you are being right now.
I'm sorry you lost your father and fathers day is difficult for you. However, do you also spend all your birthdays alone? Can you never remember being hugged or told you were loved? I don't know what kind of family eonblue has, but I think that if this the life eonblue has experienced there are reasons for emotional insecurities. I get the impression it is not the lack of a valentine partner that is the issue here, but that couples everywhere on his/her birthday makes the loneliness worse...