Magnate
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Feb 12, 2013 at 07:44 AM
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Originally Posted by BlankFace
I don't know if this will work, but I have no one to talk to about this. I am very angry and upset. i had a misunderstanding with my therapist, now my ex-therapist. We went along okay, although it was my first therapist. Basicly I had a rough time with her for the second half of the year and I lost trust in her. I also felt like she didn't listen to me or she flat out lied to me (saying she'll do things when she wouldn't) I also have concerns about the way she treated me. She told me that overeating and panic attacks are what happend when people don't grieve, although I felt like that she was saying it was my fault for having anxiety. I know what people are going to say, get a new one, but I lost her because after not making appts with me, she got a new job and didn't even try to tell me. I just got a message from the receptionist saying that she got a new job and wasn't there anymore. Her last day was three days from that call. I feel so hurt and upset. It wasn't a good year for me and now this. I don't know how I will get over it and if I should get a new one. I thought about leaving anyway, but she beat me to it. Sorry it's so long. No one to talk to that understands this.
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It happened to me too (complete with the misunderstandings) and I found it really painful. One minute she was my therapist and we were talking to resolve things, successfully I thought, the next she "needed a break" (of unstated, undetermined time frame for unstated reasons, which extended to about a year and then I got a Dear John letter about how she was so sorry it didn't work out)
I did find another therapist and it's been a very good thing. But I can easily imagine how painful it is.
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