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Syra
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Default Feb 12, 2013 at 07:44 AM
 
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Originally Posted by BlankFace View Post
I don't know if this will work, but I have no one to talk to about this. I am very angry and upset. i had a misunderstanding with my therapist, now my ex-therapist. We went along okay, although it was my first therapist. Basicly I had a rough time with her for the second half of the year and I lost trust in her. I also felt like she didn't listen to me or she flat out lied to me (saying she'll do things when she wouldn't) I also have concerns about the way she treated me. She told me that overeating and panic attacks are what happend when people don't grieve, although I felt like that she was saying it was my fault for having anxiety. I know what people are going to say, get a new one, but I lost her because after not making appts with me, she got a new job and didn't even try to tell me. I just got a message from the receptionist saying that she got a new job and wasn't there anymore. Her last day was three days from that call. I feel so hurt and upset. It wasn't a good year for me and now this. I don't know how I will get over it and if I should get a new one. I thought about leaving anyway, but she beat me to it. Sorry it's so long. No one to talk to that understands this.

It happened to me too (complete with the misunderstandings) and I found it really painful. One minute she was my therapist and we were talking to resolve things, successfully I thought, the next she "needed a break" (of unstated, undetermined time frame for unstated reasons, which extended to about a year and then I got a Dear John letter about how she was so sorry it didn't work out)

I did find another therapist and it's been a very good thing. But I can easily imagine how painful it is.
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