Job interviews are really hard for me too. When I got a job I tried to do such good work that if I ever felt the need to quit I would be in a good place to come back without all that interview stuff. Ive returned to at least three jobs that way and I was always so grateful I was rehired because I worried my personality had left an unfavorable impression.

In a lot of the lower income jobs I dont think they go to such extremes checking out backgrounds but there are exceptions of course. A lot of times I think they are happy just to have a body show up and be there.

I have some gaps in my history too but recently Ive been able to remain employed and it doesnt glare out like I worried it would. Im not lying to say during those times I was caring for someone and my expenses were taken care of so I didnt need to work. Maybe you didnt have a job but some other life need occupied your time during your work breaks and you can just be honest about it? Ideally you would meet an employer who sympathizes.

Interviews are one of those times you have to force that smile, fake that togetherness and its hugely stressful. You cant prepare for everything and maybe you will fumble at some points. Just be the best you that you can be. Employers look for people who have a good attitude about getting the work done first. If you can convince them you are going to do your best and that you share in the concern of keeping the clientele happy, sometimes thats enough to get your foot in the door. Maybe your history isnt perfect but maybe its better than the other applicants. Try to think positive and hopeful.