MUE....its really good that you are not going to let this completely consume you. Yes, you still need time to do your own things, I agree. Plus make sure your daughter doesn't lack your attention. Other family members or outside care is just going to have to kick in and help or your mom will be okay when you are off doing your own things.

Also, if I were you..I would go to group T before the shower as well.. Stink them all out.