I'm sorry you're feeling so sad today Jersey. Do something nice for you- ok? A shower sounds like a good start. Hang in there.

Sounds like you taking in more responsibility instead of less Mue. Can't you ask the nurses to give your mom a real bath every couple of days? It seems like they should be doing that anyway.

Good morning everyone else- hope you all have a great day in store. Good luck to those going to T and to those of you going to the dentist..... when I go, and if I need a filling I do it without any pain meds because I hate the way they make my mouth feel. So.... no numbing for me!