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Originally Posted by outNabout
What were you meaning by "deal with this". Do you mean deal with the lack of chores being done? Or your partner's lack of interest in sex?
One nice thing is that you say she consistently wants you to come to bed with her. That's nice! It's nice to be wanted, and that she's consistent about enjoying your company! I'd enjoy that if I were you.
For example, I'm wishing my partner was:
1) nice to me
2) wanted my friendship
3) communicated that she likes me
4) communicated that she wanted me in bed with her
So, my two cents is, enjoy the good things you've got, while you can, and keep working on the other challenges.
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I shouldn't have even really mentioned the chores or sex. They're trivial. She doesn't have a strong libido because of meds and I could probably put away dinner leftovers and take the dog out to crap so he doesn't do it on the carpets and hurry to bed before she falls asleep if I wanted to. The real problem is just the morning person vs night owl issue.
I actually do enjoy that she wants me there and am, like you say, working on these other challenges. That's why I'm, here.