Another note and in support of the idea that she'll probably not try very hard to fight much.. She called me last night starting out with her broken laptop... long story short, she's not doing well. Said to me "I'm a mess" after I told her she needs to "get a job, take care of herself and quit relying on others." She said "I know" and burst out crying. So in a nutshell I am pretty sure she's gonna be pretty flexible.