I've had a lot of insurance issues but they were all from private insurance and now I have no insurance at all. I don't qualify for state aid or the new pre-existing insurance right now, either. The whole system is flawed. I'm just hoping more changes come along that can help us get insurance. I hate insurance companies! I hate the whole thing....

It can be hard to take care of others when you're not doing so well. Make sure you and your boyfriend are communicating. If you feel you really need something, say it. And if he really needs something he should tell you. Communicating your most important needs will get you through these times without building up resentment, I think. I think communicating is a really important step that often gets forgotten.