(((Apt))) I was gonna say, sometimes Ts just forget. Then I thought, no - it was my mother who would forget, and I wouldn't remind her. Or I'd try to remind her, and she would still pretend to forget just to get out of dealing with me. So sometimes it's difficult for me to mention things to T - I feel very awkward - but I'm the one who is there for help. So if you feel hurt by his lack of reply, do you think it would be awkward to tell him that? Do you think it would hurt him, or be accusatory? Or would it be something totally about you that he would be interested in exploring? Now I have to talk to my t about a similar episode! Drat!