Welcome to PC.

PC members cannot diagnose you, first of all but I'm sure you understand this. That being said, it's hard to analyze since most of what you state is your life with regards to how others treat you rather than your behaviors and issues.

You've said you have many of the signs but did not go into detail. Can you elaborate ? What symptoms do you see in yourself?

Also you can take the AQ test (autistic quotient) and/or the Aspie Quiz to help you figure out if you may be suffering from aspergers. There are also quizzes on PC directly that might help you sort this out.

Hope this helps!