" There is no point communicating if you want your unrealizable needs meet by the one you are communicating to. You will be like a babbling fool, ever talking but achieving nothing."
-ChristianDM. (He realized that there is no point wanting his wife to understand him. This need can never be met. But he knows that his wife can know why and how he is suffering. This need can be met. He discovers the importance of having realistic needs in communication.)