That was the problem with my case. The detective didn't want to have to charge a 17 year old "child" with rape. So he said it was consensual. And it was NOT! It was very much rape. Nobody listens to me though. They just think I'm trying to stay out of trouble by not admitting to having sex... But it wasn't my choice. That's why I feel so much at fault for what happened. He forced himself on me and I couldn't stop him. So this is what I get...