we go to bed at the same time. we tend to lay there and talk for a while. it's nice and relaxing and we just enjoy each others' company. i don't think either of us fits into the night owl/early bird category. we both go to bed at about 10, then he has to get up for work at 5am, and i get up with the kids at 7. we should probably go to sleep earlier.

sometimes i stay up later than he does, but usually because i'm lying awake thinking about things.

i prefer us going to bed together because it's a bonding thing for us. we do so many things separately, it's our one chance to be together without the kids and without a lot of noise going on around us.