Noticed a lot of "I's", in your note. Your voice is from your perspective, how about thinking from the perspective of your spouse for a while. Wouldn't it be a shocker if he was feeling the same way? What have you done in the last month to be more of a women, or to get out of the house and cultivate new friends, interests, recreation ..... They won't come knocking at your door unless you go looking for them. Maybe your spose is simply tired of the same old Wednesday night special, and would welcome a couple of changes.