I have never found a PAP smear enjoyable, but still it is necessary. I have to go every 6 months too. Somethings just are not pleasant, so I just grit my teeth and get through them. Partly I guess it is because it seems like such a violation and fro me it hurts a little. Fortunately it is over pretty quick. I just try to tell myself that thousands of women have them done every day and the get through it, so can I. I am glad your husband will be with you. I would love to have the man I trust the most in my life with me too. Not his thing though.

I guess I do not really have an easy answer, -- Just to assure you that it will be all right. Hugs and I really wish you the best