Good job, Raindropvampire! :thumbsup:

I am sorry to hear that your hub and MIL were screaming at you and putting you down. That's messed up! While they've chilled out on their antics thankfully, I would assume that the hostility and resentment really hurts you. Especially from your hub!

I can understand how your hub may have mixed emotions about his father going to prison...but, I truly hope that you're able to get him to go to therapy with you. I can imagine his remarks causing a big rift between the two of you soon. That just really has to hurt!

I hope that your FIL gets the maximum sentence and doesn't get out 20 years before his full sentence is served. The criminal system is so confusing to me ~ just doesn't make sense. Gentle hugs sent your way.