Today i had my session with a stand in p'doc while mine is away. She said she wouldn't deal with the alt unless I was there as well. Is it possible to have the alt out as well me? To my mind you either get one or the other you cant have both. I get shoved away and one or more alts come out depending on what is being said. I get to come back when the topic is neutral/general.

What do other people experience?