Hello Unmotivatable, I am so very sorry to hear that you are going through all this, i have been going through a divorce for the past 1&1/2 years aswell, and she just doesnt want to agree on anything. We have a 2yr old daughter together, and it is horrible not bein able to see her. I am in the army now, and in the middle of afghanistan, and she how now filed an adultry complaint against me. After a year and a half of us being seperated, I have moved on, but I am still not divorced due to her dragging her feet.

I am again deeply sorry for your situation, and I pray that you will be able to get this done and over with soon..

I know this may not have to much helpfull information, but i thought it might be nice to know that you are not alone. Dont Corner yourself with emotions by thinking it may be wrong to have them. It is ok to be hurt.

If you dont take anything from this comment, remember this;

"God will never give you more than you can handle"

You can come out of this a stronger person, with more knowladge of who you are and what you like.

God bless.