I always go to bed hours before my husband, We never have sex due to my reaction to medication and hes ED. Nonetheless, he comes into the bedroom when I am in bed and "tucks me in". We talk for a few minutes and then he leaves the room. I am often asleep before he even gets the lights out. He comes to bed much later.

I love sleeping with him. He is so warm and makes me feel so safe. It brings a closeness to our relationship. He hugs me all night. It works for us and I never want separate beds. We need that time together.