Great outcome. I'm so glad you PMed her directly or you would still be feeling wounded. Now, it's time for some of others (me!) to talk directly to someone...my husband...don't know when I'll have the strength to do it. Went to meds doc today. Increased Lamictal added Trazadone for sleep & said I need to get back into therapy & he needs to go to someone (different) too. We'll see whether I can broach that subject.--Suzy