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shortandcute · 01:28 PM

This probably could fit into many forums, but I picked this one because depression is my main issue. Anyway--many of us have had people say or do things in an attempt to "fix" us.

My list:
1. When I was 37, my oldest sister tried to pressure me to learn how to quilt and wear dresses more, thinking that if she could "turn me into a lady," I would feel better.
2. People telling me I was just being too hard on myself.
3. People telling me, "It's probably something in your diet."
4. "Have you ever considered just moving to a bigger city?"
5. "Maybe it's time for you to learn how to drive."
6. "Maybe you could get a job at a daycare? THAT'S an easy job."
7. "You're just ungrateful."
8. (people from my AA groups): "Get a spnsor," or "You haven't worked the steps."
9. "Drink less coffee; drink more water."
10. my oldest sister conatantly badgering me to see what if I have any plans for the day
11. my other sister trying to "rescue" me from my oldest sister, and telling me that I just need to stand up for myself
12 . being told that I just need to "express my feelings"

Sorry for such a wierd post, but I guess I still need to vent.