Thank you for your post resident I can definitely relate. When we place all of ourselves in a relationship and when that fades we are left devastated (which is an understatement). I would like to suggest that you sign in as many times as you can to PC and read others experiences. It will help you to not feel alone and it will remind you that better days are to come. Reading your post has helped me in the sense that I now feel I have someone to relate to. Be strong and love you first and foremost!
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Originally Posted by genetic
Psychiatry and alcoholics anonymous are two routes to follow to improve your feeling tone for you.
Your life is being lived from a "need" position rather than from a "helpful" position.
Try to get help so that you learn how to live, not destroy yourself as alcohol and
passion are capable of doing.
Getting clean from alcohol abuse will permit you to see things differently in life and
enable you to establish a healthy, positive, enduring, and caring relationship based
on real love, not deep, unfulfilled needs that make a slave of one.
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