i'm fairly confident that my primary dx is bipolar disorder but i've also been queried as schizoaffective, and my Tdoc thinks there are OCD traits too. also, both my pdoc and tdoc (and me) think i have elements of my personality that are disordered but no one's sure whether it's enough to warrant a dx - i've started going to a local scheme which is a support group for PD patients, and so far it's very helpful.
i'm sorry you're having so much hassle