I am just writing to tell you i read your story in this post. I hope everything can be worked out between you two. in my case my ex fiance cheated on me when i was pregnant in my 7th month, looking back i should have left him then but forgave him, i really had no choice at the time moneywise, i stayed 2 more years and things just got worse with a baby to take care of with little help from my fiance we lived together first never got married as i left after he punched me in the head which knocked some sence into me, he was also an alcholic the signs were all there. i hope for your sake and your baby's you make the right decision.follow your gut feeling, it could be scarry in your situation, but you have to decide, waiting for someone isn't easy i will pray you and your family.