View Single Post
 
Old Feb 13, 2013, 06:45 PM
BrokenNBeautiful's Avatar
BrokenNBeautiful BrokenNBeautiful is offline
Mental Wellness Mensch
 
Member Since: Apr 2009
Location: I live with myself. Because that is all I can depend on. Everthing around me changes.
Posts: 3,439
I learned to be afraid of my own body and also of others' bodies, and of sexuality in general because I was abused. I am working on this. Sexuality is a positive thing, but if we are abused, it feels negative. I learned that I have a problem with sexual abuse, not with sex.

I think I learned that sex was dirty, the same way. From being abused.

Just my thoughts.

Carol
__________________
The idea of a soul mate is an ILLUSION. In reality, we must learn to be our own best friend/partner. Then if love comes to us, we will already be whole. All that love can do, at that point, is enhance our wholeness!
Hugs from:
geez
Thanks for this!
geez