Speculation: It isn't necessarily a matter of "wrong." If you suffer from anxiety, you may be unconsciously broadcasting your discomfort to people. This is also true for depression. As others have said, depression/anxiety interferes with relationships and communication.
Findings ways to calm yourself in social situations may help you/us locate the few real listeners out there.
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My dog

mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.