My T has discussed that he would like me to avoid certain specific posters' threads, because I get frantic, angry, etc when I see that they are engaging in totally narcissistic or self absorbed, boundary pushing behavior, and they do not even seem embarrassed or aware of how horrible what they do is to those on the receiving end. Then when I point it out, I get lambasted. And then I sit and obsess about any tiny similarity between my thoughts and impulses and theirs meaning that I am also a boundary stomping narcissist. He says I am, if anything, overly concerned about not bumping others' boundaries and he feels it is harmful to me to read those kinds of threads, because I then re-double my efforts to avoid boundary bumping. Other than that, he and I have discussed that I feel I have found some really valuable friendships here, and how much this forum has helped me to make progress in my therapy. We have discussed maintaining my own boundaries as well.