Alrighty, I might be a bit late but here's my take on the couch.

I also think the couch is (or can be) one of the most supportive places to be on this forum, for anyone. It's all a matter of perception as to whether someone feels welcome. At least, I've only seen welcoming comments directed towards anyone who posts here, including comments directed towards me. I "barged in" when I finally had time to keep up because I was studying by distance and I found that getting to know the regular posters did make it feel much easier to keep up with. I think the truth is that for many people it's hard to walk into a conversation with group of regulars who know each other (and this thread wouldn't really exist or be so supportive in the same way if there weren't some regulars). Other people seem to have the ability to walk into a group and be themselves straight away and I think those things translate into an online environment too. But sure, it can easily bring out insecurities.

I kept up with the psychotherapy board for quite a while before I joined (so I've read the board for a few years now), though I almost couldn't post at all for a long time. I'm pretty certain that this thread adds to the community here in a huge way. Posting a thread can be slow in waiting for responses. It's normal not to get a reply for a while. Often I'll see something and know because it's a thread that I'll go back when I have time, whereas if something is posted here I'd be more likely to offer a quick word or two if it seems like someone is really looking for help or support. To me this thread seems to really keep the community alive. It's so much easier to get to know other people in this thread too. I'm sure a few people get to know other people through PMs, but not all of us have many or any people to PM.

I'm also someone who would often rather post something here than start a whole new thread. Sometimes I probably say too much? But honestly, I think if anything, it's probably more supportive, welcoming, risk free, and friendly here than anywhere else. At least that's how I've found it to be. And that's from someone who does struggle a bit here (because I also do in real life). Anyway, that was my long way of saying it's a matter of perception, and it brings out insecurities, and it's really supportive, and it keeps the boards alive (I think).