U are awesome thank you,I want to take all the blame but truth be known I never realized my wife was unhappy with me she always made me feel good no matter what happened. My wife not being truthful has really beat me down. Last year I felt un welcome at my house for the hole year was even told in ways I wasn't welcome, I finally took the initiative to just say ok I quit I give up I can't do no more I am out and then only then it all changed why why why why I say to my self I have done everything I thought possible to make my family work I have exhausted myself to the end, and now she wants me home as a husband and everything has changed....