Maybe your T falls into this category? </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
The kind of people who want me to be vulnerable are not healthy for me and will try to keep me down.

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What part of healing does your T expect from you? You have to write your OWN self help guide? What book is she using, if any? Maybe SHE needs the book to read and learn how to help people heal.