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Originally Posted by katya093
ok so i have been in a very similar relationhip , i wanted to cuddle the guy - he flipped out
and so he got on top of me and pressed all his weight to his hands and pressed it against my forhead, hurt really bad , and slapped me in the face several times
i cried and said ur a ****ing idiot
then after that i turned the lights off and went in a diff room slept ont he couch , he came in and started yelling " say sorry!"
and hit me on the arm as well and pushed me against the furniture really hard and screamed in my ear " this is me mad"
k so - he stopped and
left
and i ended up sleeping on the staires and
he texted me cuz he heard my phone going off, i was asking people to pick me up
he said he was sorry
and i was like u scare me
and next day he gave me roses and tried to make it up
no one can make anything like that up
- i saw a aprt of him i never saw before but now i know its there
and i dont want to be a part of it anymore
**** i wouodnt want to have kids with a guy like that and have him be around them
u got to look at the big picture
u can find a man better for u - sexier- and non violent
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I'm sorry you had to go through that.
He's trying to make it up to me with ice-cream. It made me want to laugh at his stupidity but I didn't and inside I was pretty much thinking he's an idiot if he thinks ice-cream is supposed to make me feel better...I wouldn't dare say it though. It amazes me how fast and easy he thinks it'll be for me to get over this. If he hits me again I'm calling everyone in my family who live in the next city over to see if someone can come pick me up because I'm not gonna deal with "It was an accident" again. I agree with what you say about the kids as-well. I grew up with a drunk and abusive father..he verbally, mentally and physically abused me and my mother but treated my brother like a God. I wouldn't EVER want me and my kids to go through what my mother and I went through before my dad got Cancer. He died in 2010 but I still have the horrible memories...