I do small unkind things periodically. I am sort of ashamed, but not really, because REALLY, this person needs someone to take a verbal or written poke at them periodically. LOL.

In terms of big unkind things, I cannot tell you how many times I have stabbed my mother in the face in my head. Is that the kind of thing you're talking about? My T says I get a free pass on things I think about, but would never actually do.