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Old Feb 13, 2013, 10:15 PM
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Originally Posted by BrokenNBeautiful View Post
I learned to be afraid of my own body and also of others' bodies, and of sexuality in general because I was abused. I am working on this. Sexuality is a positive thing, but if we are abused, it feels negative. I learned that I have a problem with sexual abuse, not with sex.

I think I learned that sex was dirty, the same way. From being abused.

Just my thoughts.

Carol
You have a problem with sexual abuse so how where you able to 'frame it' to not put that in the same category as sex? Intellectually I get it and I'm more than frustrated that I'm not 'getting it' emotionally. Fear is still there.
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