ACC_gal you don't deserve to be treated that way at all. Your mom sounds like she is really breaking down and she's taking it out on you which isn't fair at all.

The fact that you manage to deal with all these things is inspirational to me. Don't let anyone tell you that there is something wrong with you - not even your own mother. It is obvious to me from your posts that you are a beautiful person and it's her loss if she can't see that.